Why are some access needs harder to talk about than others?

Unpicking some internalised nonsense

Hello,

I’ve been noticing something interesting about myself.

When I’m invited somewhere, I am perfectly happy telling absolutely anyone that I need step free access and a disabled loo (I basically refuse to hand over money anywhere I can’t pee). I don’t give a second thought to saying I need a ticket or space for my PA. I ask for these basic things I nee…