Curated safety

And how privileged that is

Hi,

My friend and I were reminiscing (read: lamenting) the other day about when we met. It was during what could be charitably described as our chaos era. We were in our early 20s; me looking for a job, her simultaneously working about six of them, both of us with unideal love lives, and, most notably, non-existent sleep patterns. We went out a lot and d…